They are super possessive with their friends.
I first learned this when my ‘bestfriend’ from third grade threw a rock to my ‘new found friend’ and then isolated me from our group of friends.
It was tough getting the cold shoulder from them because we were always together but I didn’t give a fuck because I really like my NFF. She’s super cute kase hahaha so I sided with her. In the end they missed me and then took me back. Of course I missed them too so even tho I was thinking that their behavior was fkken outrageous. We reconciled and gave each other a big hug. I know, it’s so dramatic! But I just went along with it.


I don’t know if life’s really that way, full of drama. I dunno if they just got it from watching Sailormoon too much or whatever but I was kind of surprise that things like that happen and it seems so normal to them. I mean, I never once thought of isolating someone just because she has a different friend apart from me.

It happened again on 4th grade, I transferred to a co-ed school. Because I was a transferee, a lot of girls are fond of me. I was shy at that time and I wasn’t very good at socializing but I’m really nice so they like me a lot. One time, my friends got into a heated argument with this popular girl in our class. I don’t have anything against that girl; Actually, I like her because she’s so pretty and talented, so I was quiet throughout that time. I can’t remember the details clearly but we, the cleaners of the day, were called by our teacher in front of the class and she was asking why our group is biting each others’ head off. My ‘friends’ at that time were blaming the popular girl and they said that she’s bossy, that they don’t like her and they wish that someone else was the leader. The popular girl then burst our crying.. actually, I think everyone (in our group) was crying and I’m like this girl who was thinking “What is this even about?” =.=

So then our teacher asked who they want to be leader instead. Imagine my shock when they cried out my name in unison.

WTF?! =)))))))
I don’t even hate her.
I don’t even want to be the leader of a ‘cleaning’ group.
I felt so bad when the popular girl looked at me with tears all over her face
and I was like

It felt like I was the one who started the whole mumbo jumbo when I didn’t even say anything.

The whole “She’s not our friend anymore okay? because she found a new friend! She betrayed us! Do not talk to her or else!” scenario repeated itself over and over in each grade except I’m not the one getting isolated anymore. I learned that you should stick with your own clique FOREVER unless you found a new clique, and you think it’s better and that it’s totally fine if to dump the old one because the new clique will protect you. Muahahaha. It’s also nice if you also have one super friend so in case of another riot, you can depend on someone. =)))))

I think the worst kind of girls are the kind of girls who wants to be your friend because they only need something from you.
I also hate the kind of girls who gets close to you but says bad things behind your back because they’re actually jealous of you. (I had my share of these kind of bitches)

Bottomline is, you have to choose your friends carefully because some of the girls out there are INSANE.